finally had to bow down to someone else on the football field.
The standout tight end/defensive end, who gave a verbal commitment in April to play for the University of Missouri, has had his way with opponents on both sides of the ball since he first took up the sport in fifth grade.
But this time, he whimpered to the sidelines in defeat.
Hoerstkamp tried to sneak into practice last season after missing the school day with a mild case of the flu.
School rules prohibit players from participating in after-school events if they do not attend classes during the day.
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But the 6-foot-4, 230-pounder, who is considered to be one of the top high school tight ends in the country, decided to go up to school and at least hang out and watch his teammates despite his condition.
Bad move.
His mother Melissa, who teaches at the school, returned home that day to find the sick child missing. She immediately figured out the location of her AWOL son.
So Melissa drove up to the school, marched right on the football field and proceeded to scream at Ryan.
“It was so funny,†Washington senior wide receiver/defensive back Conner Maher recalled.
Ryan was trying to plead his case, but Melissa was having none of it. After yelling at Ryan in front of the entire team and coaching staff, she promptly grabbed him by the ear and physically hauled him off the field.
“I read him the riot act,†Melissa said. “No school, no sports for that day. It’s a ruleâ€
A rule both at school and at the Hoerstkamp residence just minutes from the campus.
Imagine a man-child of a football player being led off by his 5-foot-3 mother, who put him in his car and sent him home.
“The craziest thing I’ve seen in my 13 years of coaching,†Washington coach Derick Heflin said. “I started to walk over there to see what was going on. I saw his momÌý— and how mad she wasÌý— and I turned around and went the other way. I wasn’t about to get involved.â€
Ryan can look back now and laugh. But the incident will go down in Blue Jays football history.
“She just showed up and starting barking me out,†Ryan said. “I was trying to explain it to her. I wanted to be there for my teammates to show that I was committed to them even though I was sick.
"But she wasn’t having any of it.â€
Despite the size discrepancy, Ryan knew it was a lost cause.
“She’s small, but when she’s mad she scares me,†Ryan said. “Scares my father (Craig), too.â€
That mid-October practice session might be the last time Hoerstkamp gets humiliated on the football field.
A pure blocking machine, Hoerstkamp received college offers from 18 NCAA Division I schools before giving a verbal commitment to Mizzou. A few weeks after that, he got an offer from the University of Alabama and even chatted with legendary coach Nick Saban via computer.
But Hoerstkamp remains “all in†with the Tigers.
Still, he would like to visit the Tuscaloosa school sometime in the future depending on COVID-19.
“When a school like Alabama calls, you have to listen,†Hoerstkamp said. “I feel like I’d be selling myself short if I didn’t go and check it out.â€
Hoerstkamp insists he is not having second thoughts about joining the Tigers. He is even helping other non-committed recruits by pushing the programs virtues on social media.
“I think (Missouri) is on the way to something special,†Hoerstkamp said. “I want to be part of it. And I want others to join us, too.â€
Hoerstkamp is quick for his size and has excellent hand-eye coordination to go along with a quick burst off the line. In addition, his pass-catching skills can turn heads. He hauled in 11 passes for 267 yards and two scores last season as the Blue Jays compiled a 9-2 recordÌý— their best since the 2001 team went 13-1.
“When Alabama calls me and says that nobody in the United States of America blocks the C gap like this kid does, you can’t get a higher compliment than that,†Heflin said.
Heflin believes Hoerstkamp’s best attributes are his instincts.
“He has the ability to put his hand in the dirt and move a person to a place where they don’t want to go,†Heflin said.
Hoerstkamp alwaysÌýhas been big for his age. When he first took up the game, he had such a mammoth frame that he was not allowed to run with the ball for fear of injuring smaller players. He can remember intercepting a pass and having to go straight to ground without trying to move forward with the ball.
By the time Hoerstkamp reached eighth grade, he was finally allowed to try to score.
But he remained fascinated by play in the trenches.
“It’s always been the fun part of the game for me,†he said.
Hoerstkamp has reached legendary status in this Franklin County town. He is also a three-year regular on the basketball team. Yet he remains humble.
“He’s not cocky or anything like that,†said Maher, his friend since middle school. “He stays level and grounded. He doesn’t go around acting like he’s the big show around here.â€
Hoerstkamp received offers from Michigan, Wisconsin, Michigan State, Arizona, Kentucky and Cincinnati, among others.
But he has always loved Mizzou football, attending games ever since he can remember. His best recollection was leaving late in the fourth quarter of the Tigers’ 27-24 come-from-behind win over San Diego State on Sept. 18, 2010. Blaine Gabbert hit T.J. Moe on a 68-yard go-ahead scoring strike with 51 seconds left on a play that has been dubbed “The Moe Miarcle.â€
Hoerstkamp never saw the play.
“My grandpa wanted to leave and I said, 'No, they’re going to come back,' †Hoerstkamp said. “We parked about two miles away and we heard the crowd roaring on the way to the car. Then, we got in and heard on the radio what had just happened.â€
Hoerstkamp is looking forward to becoming part of Tigers lore. This time, he will be able to hear the roar from the playing field.
“It’s the place for me,†he said. “You know how you get that feeling, that this is a perfect spot. That’s how I feel about Mizzou.â€
Hoerstkamp actually gave the Tigers the verbal commitment while on a hunting trip deep in the woods.
“My friends, our whole town is full of Mizzou fans,†Hoerstkamp said. “Every time I go there for a game, it’s an eye-opener. I can’t wait to be a part of it.â€
2020-21 Post-Dispatch Super 30 preseason countdown
2020-21 Post-Dispatch preseason Super 30 countdown

Take a tour of our countdown of the top senior college football prospects in the St. Louis area. Join us each day as we unveil new selections.ÌýDec. 16 is the earliest date players in the class of 2021 can sign binding letters of intent with NCAA Division I and Division II schools.
No. 1: Jakailin Johnson, De Smet, DB

READ MORE:ÌýDe Smet's Johnson the latest local to pledge to Ohio State
VERBAL: Ohio State
OFFERS: Arkansas, Clemson, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Iowa State, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisville, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, Notre Dame, Oklahoma, Oklahoma State, Oregon, Purdue, Texas A&M, USC, Virginia Tech, Western Michigan
No. 2: Dominic Lovett, East St. Louis, WR

READ MORE:ÌýLovett leaves his options open, ready for spring season with East St. Louis
OFFERS: Alabama, Arizona State, Georgia, LSU, Missouri, Oregon, Penn State, Arkansas, Auburn, Illinois, Iowa State, Louisville, Mississippi State, Purdue, West VirginiaÌý
No. 3: Keontez Lewis, East St. Louis, WR

READ MORE:ÌýLewis lands on UCLA, mulls spring season at East St. Louis
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OFFERS: Missouri, Mississippi, Oregon, South Carolina, UCLA, Arizona, Arkansas, Auburn, Illinois, Iowa, Iowa State, Kentucky, Michigan State, Minnesota, Mississippi State, Nebraska, Northwestern, Purdue, SIU Carbondale, Southern Mississippi, Tennessee, Utah State, Vanderbilt, West Virginia, Texas A&M
No. 4: Tyler Macon, East St. Louis, QB

READ MORE:ÌýEast St. Louis QBÌýMacon primed to rewrite state record book
VERBAL: Missouri
OFFERS: Michigan State, Central Michigan, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Iowa State, Southern Mississippi, Vanderbilt, Western Michigan Ìý
No. 5: Gabriel Rubio, Lutheran St. Charles, DL

READ MORE:ÌýLutheran St. Charles' Rubio displays vast array of talents
VERBAL: Notre Dame
OFFERS: Ball State, California, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisville, LSU, Michigan State, Minnesota, Missouri, Nebraska, Ohio State, Oklahoma, Oklahoma State, Texas A&M, Vanderbilt
No. 6: Travion Ford, Lutheran North, DE

READ MORE:ÌýFord ready to step up as Lutheran North's next defensive star
VERBAL: Missouri
OFFERS: Mississippi, Illinois, Louisville, Alabama, Arkansas, Arizona State, Florida State, Iowa, Iowa State, Kansas, Kansas State, Kentucky, LSU, Memphis, Miami, Michigan, Michigan State, Minnesota, Mississippi State, Nebraska, Ohio State, Oklahoma, Oregon, Purdue, SMU, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Texas A&M, Texas Tech, Utah, Washington State
No. 7: Justin Johnson, Edwardsville, RB

READ MORE:ÌýJohnson a rare breed at powerhouse Edwardsville
OFFERS: Bowling Green, California, Central Michigan, Illinois, Illinois State, Indiana, Kent State, Louisville, Michigan State, Minnesota, Purdue, Temple, Washington State, West Virginia, Western Michigan, Wyoming ​
No. 8: Tyler Hibbler, Trinity, S

READ MORE:ÌýHibbler has high hopes for Trinity before heading to Mizzou
VERBAL: Missouri
OFFERS: Arkansas, Iowa State, Michigan State, Arkansas State, Arkansas-Pine Bluff, Kansas, Kansas State, Kentucky, Liberty, Louisville, Memphis, Miami, Nebraska, Northeastern State, Northern Illinois, South Dakota, Toledo, Washington State, West Virginia Ìý
No. 9: Taj Butts, De Smet, RB

READ MORE:ÌýButts brings the thunder to De Smet's backfield
VERBAL: Missouri
OFFERS: Illinois, Indiana, Iowa State, Kentucky, Louisville, Purdue, Toledo
No. 10: Mekhi Wingo, De Smet, DL

READ MORE:ÌýDe Smet's Wingo eager to help Mizzou succeed
VERBAL: Missouri
OFFERS: Arkansas, Iowa State, Kansas, Kansas State, Kent State, Louisville, Memphis, Purdue, Texas Tech, Toledo, UT-Martin, West VirginiaÌý
No. 11: Ryan Hoerstkamp, Washington, TE

READ MORE:ÌýWashington's Hoerstkamp ready for Mizzou, SEC challenge
VERBAL: Missouri
OFFERS: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, Arkansas State, Cincinnati, Indiana, Kansas, Kansas State, Kentucky, Memphis, Michigan State, Northern Iowa, South Dakota, Texas Tech, Central Florida
No. 12: Demetrius Cannon, Trinity, WR

READ MORE:ÌýTrinity's Cannon feels like his best is yet to come
VERBAL: Louisville
OFFERS: Arkansas, Illinois, Penn State, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Minnesota, Missouri, Tennessee, Toledo, Vanderbilt, West Virginia
No. 13: Dakote Doyle-Robinson, De Smet, DL

READ MORE:ÌýDe Smet's Doyle-Robinson drops jaws with his superior athleticism
VERBAL: Baylor
OFFERS: Arkansas State, Austin Peay, Ball State, Bowling Green, Central Michigan, Charlotte, Kent State, Michigan State, Northeastern State, Northern Iowa, South Dakota, Toledo, UT-Martin, Washington State
No. 14: Darez Snider, De Smet, RB

READ MORE:ÌýSnider's fleet feet make him a devastating weapon for De Smet
VERBAL: Miami Ohio
OFFERS: Arkansas State, Eastern Illinois, Toledo, William & Mary
No. 15: Rico Barfield, De Smet, RB

READ MORE:ÌýBarfield's vision, toughness helped De Smet turn around its program
VERBAL: Ball State
OFFERS:ÌýIowa State, Kansas, Missouri State, Purdue, South Dakota, Toledo, Utah State, Washington State
No. 16: Bill Jackson, Cardinal Ritter, RB

READ MORE:ÌýJackson eager to move forward, assume leadership role at Cardinal Ritter
VERBAL: Tulsa
OFFERS: Arizona State, Central Michigan, Kansas, Nebraska, Northern Iowa, Purdue
No. 17: Hutson Lillibridge, De Smet, OL

READ MORE:ÌýDe Smet lineman Lillibridge thrives with a demanding routine
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OFFERS: Central Michigan, Georgetown, Illinois, Indiana, Indiana State, Kansas, Kent State, Lindenwood, Louisville, Missouri State, Ohio, South Dakota, UT-Martin, Western Illinois, Western Michigan
No. 18: Chevalier Brenson, CBC, WR

READ MORE:ÌýCBC's Brenson sets commitment date, stays loose during pandemic
VERBAL: Illinois
OFFERS: Army, Austin Peay, Ball State, Bowling Green, Central Michigan, Colorado State, Illinois, Illinois State, Kansas State, Kent State, Memphis, Miami Ohio, Missouri State, New Mexico, Northern Iowa, Ohio, South Dakota, SIU Carbondale, Toledo, Western Michigan, William & Mary
No. 19: Myles Norwood, Trinity, DB

READ MORE:ÌýTrinity's Norwood padded prospect resume with Junior Olympics national championship
OFFERS:ÌýNavy, Lehigh, Army, Youngstown State, Southeast Missouri State, Northern Illinois, Arkansas-Pine Bluff, Austin Peay, Missouri State, Brown, Northeastern State, Eastern Illinois, UT-Martin, Bucknell
No. 20: Logan Kopp, Lindbergh, ATH/MLB

READ MORE:ÌýFully recharged, Lindbergh's Kopp ready to showcase versatility
VERBAL: North Dakota StateÌý
OFFERS: Brown, Columbia, Eastern Illinois, Lindenwood, Missouri Southern State, Missouri State, Murray State, Northern Arizona, Northwest Missouri State, South Dakota, Southeast Missouri State, Southwest Baptist, UT-Martin
No. 21: Jordan Marshall, CBC, DB/S

READ MORE:ÌýMarshall's plan helps him excel academically, athletically at CBC
VERBAL: Ball StateÌý
OFFERS:ÌýAir Force, Army, Austin Peay, Bowling Green, Brown, Columbia, Eastern Illinois, Fordham, Holy Cross, Illinois State, Indiana State, Missouri State, Murray State, Navy, Northeastern State, Northern Iowa, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Southeast Missouri State, SIU Carbondale, Western Illinois
No. 22: Angelo Butts, McCluer North, WR

READ MORE:ÌýButts under center for McCluer North but expects to be catching passes in college
VERBAL: Miami of Ohio
OFFERS: Ball State, Bowling Green, Indiana State, Kent State, Missouri State, Southeast Missouri State, Western Michigan
No. 23: Will Lee, Kirkwood, WR

READ MORE:ÌýConfidence is never in short supply for Kirkwood's Lee
OFFERS: Ball State, Bowling Green, Iowa, Iowa State, Kent State, Missouri State, Northeastern State, Northern Iowa, South Dakota
No. 24: Latrell Bonner, O'Fallon, S

READ MORE:ÌýGrowth spurt bolsters recruiting profile for O'Fallon's Bonner
OFFERS: Eastern Illinois, Southeast Missouri State, Murray State
No. 25: Kaden McMullen, O'Fallon Christian, QB

READ MORE:ÌýO'Fallon Christian's McMullen quite comfortable under center
OFFERS: Missouri, Alabama A&M, Idaho, Northern Illinois, Northern Iowa, UNLV, UT-Martin
No. 26: Kyle Long, Hazelwood Central, OL

READ MORE:ÌýHazelwood Central's Long just starting to tap into his potential
VERBAL: Maryland
OFFERS:ÌýCentral Michigan, Eastern Illinois, Murray State
No. 27: Sam Buck, Highland, OL/DL

READ MORE:ÌýHighland's Buck personifies toughness in trenches
OFFERS: Southwest Minnesota, Western Illinois, Eastern Illinois
No. 28: Carter Davis, Eureka, QB

READ MORE:ÌýEureka's all-time leading passer, Davis puts injury behind him
OFFERS: Lindenwood University, Quincy University
No. 29: Mali Walton, Parkway South, LB

READ MORE:ÌýParkway South's Walton did a little bit of everything last season
OFFERS: Bemidji State, Northeastern State, Lindenwood, Southern Baptist University
No. 30: Shawn Binford, Cahokia, DE/TE

READ MORE:ÌýBinford's size, speed make him a two-way terror
OFFERS:ÌýNone