About a year ago, Dory Poholsky was looking for a volunteer opportunity.
The 83-year-old from Kirkwood has long been giving with her time, particularly after her husband, Tom (a for the St. Louis Cardinals), died in 2001 of brain cancer.
Poholsky has a particular soft spot for veterans. So she asked the if she could start a Saturday craft program. A friend carved children’s toys out of wood, and she brought them to the VA to have veterans paint and decorate them to give to their grandchildren or other kids.
Poholsky spent time talking to the veterans or playing cards with them. “One of them thought I was a former blackjack dealer from Vegas,†she says.
Soon, she met residents of the St. Louis Veterans Home in north St. Louis County who had a story to tell. They told her their care was sometimes inadequate, that some of the veterans were being neglected.
Poholsky went to the state-run facility to see things for herself. She talked with veterans and met family members. Over the past year, she has become convinced that something is amiss.
“They are suffering physically,†Poholsky says of the veterans. “Some of them are dying. We cannot let this go on.â€
On Monday, Poholsky and some of the family members of veterans at the home are planning a news conference to go public with their complaints.
The meeting is scheduled for 7 p.m. at North Kirkwood Middle School. Among the attendees will be former state Rep. Rick Stream, R-Kirkwood, who has been working with Poholsky for months to make sure that state government officials, including Lt. Gov. Mike Parson and Gov. Eric Greitens, are aware of what Stream describes as a “disturbing†and “very serious†problem.
The veterans home is the , with three wings and about 300 beds. The home provides 24-hour nursing care to aging veterans, many of them in wheelchairs, some of whom spend their final days there.
Rolando Carter, the administrator of the St. Louis home for a little more than the past year, says he is aware of Poholsky’s complaints but believes they are misplaced.
“For the most part, they were very minor in nature,†Carter told me Friday after giving me a tour of the facility. “We did identify that we could do a better job communicating with families.â€
In May, Carter met with several of the families who had taken their complaints to Poholsky. He says that as a result of that meeting, the veterans home has added a guest service director and instituted what he calls “daily grand rounds†where nurses and administrators familiarize themselves with the health care needs of the veterans in their care.
In September, the federal Department of Veterans Affairs conducted an annual survey of the St. Louis veterans home and found it “in compliance with all federal standards.â€
“I want our veterans to get the best care possible because they deserve it,†Carter says. “I think that we as a facility have done everything they’ve asked us to do.â€
That’s not how Poholsky sees it.
In April, she provided Greitens with a 48-page report detailing various complaints from veterans’ families.
They include incidents of bedsores and dehydration, being provided the wrong medicine or none at all. She tells stories of individual family members who believe that their loved ones are punished if family members complain about their care.
In August, the top executives of the Missouri Veterans Commission — Gen. Larry Kay, the executive director; Brian Hunt, the deputy director; and Kim Packard, director of the Homes Program — met with some of the veterans’ families to discuss their complaints.
Poholsky thought there would be changes then, especially with the governor himself being a veteran.
“We’ve tried everything,†she says. “I didn’t want you or the rest of the press to know about this. But nobody has done anything. We have got to fight for these men, because they sure as hell fought for us.â€